WIPE OUT DEBTS WITHOUT BANKRUPTCY

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WIPE OUT DEBTS WITHOUT BANKRUPTCY

In 1938 a federal law was passed known as the Wage Earner Plan. It is administered by the same branch of our courts that handle bankruptcy. You must be a wage-earner to use the law - that is the primary requirement. The Wage Earner Plan does not in itself 'wipe out' debts, but a little-known proviso of your filing requires that your creditors must appear to verify your indebtedness to them. Statistics indicate that 40% fail to appear, in which case, those debts are indeed 'wiped out'. In some cases 100% of the creditors fail to appear, which enables you to wipe out ALL your debts without bankruptcy. If some of the creditors do appear, then the court allows you to spread your payments out over a three year period in smaller amounts so that you can afford to pay.

Once you file under the Wage Earner Plan, you stop bill collectors, lawsuits, judgements, assignments, seized bank accounts, and other actions against you. And to top it off, your credit rating is, in many cases, improved because you made an honest effort to work with the lending films. Additionally, if the seller used deceptive trade practices to induce your purchase, your debt may be wiped out under the provisions of the Uniform Commercial Code. Under the Homestead Act, your residence can be exempted from levy to the extent determined by local law. Check at your local courthouse.

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ESTABLISH AAA CREDIT IN 30 DAYS -

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If you recall in one of my earlier post or maybe this is your first time on my Blog, anyhow, I mentioned in one of my previous posts that I have attempted many types of business, and one of those businesses included selling Reports that ranged anywhere from “Improving Your Credit”, “Healthy Living”, “Quick Smoking” and among many other reports that are simple, straight-forward and actually contained some great information that if put into use would actually help you in what it was meant to do. So anyhow, I would like to start sharing these reports on a weekly basis and, rest assure that these are reports I had purchased and have legal rights to, they are no means here to give you legal advise, health advise or tax advise…please see an accountant, lawyer or doctor to confirm before attempting to follow anyone of these reports.

ESTABLISH AAA CREDIT IN 30 DAYS:
To work this plan you need at least $400 to begin. You should borrow this from your friends if necessary. Then go to a bank of your choice and deposit the $400 into a regular passbook savings account.

Wait a few days for the account to be posted and return to the bank to ask for a $400 loan - you offer the passbook as collateral. Since the bank is already holding your $400, you go to another bank open a savings account lending you another $400 and they won't even make a credit check. Then, with your borrowed $400, you go to another bank, open a savings account, return a few days later, borrow $400 from that bank using your passbook as collateral.

Then repeat the process at a third bank with your borrowed $400. Wait a few days to go to a fourth bank where you open this time a CHECKING account. Wait a few days and make a payment on each of the other three loans. A week later, make payments again on the three loans, and continue paying each week until you have almost paid off the balance.

A credit investigation at this point will show you with three active bank loans (which are considered hard to get), a checking account, and a paying history for the three bank loans - with you having paid up in advance. Thus, you have AAA credit in as little as 30 days. From here you go on to apply for loans, credit cards, and other items on credit.

Thanks for Reading and hope some of this information helped, till next time.

My Dream Made Me Do It

Welcome once again to another post on “Not This Blog”. Wow, hope I am not starting to sound like Casey Kasem…lol. Ok, so this is an interesting topic having to do with dreams.

After along day, you finally get into a warm cozy bed with your partner, you exchange a kiss, say good night and turn off the lights. As you head into a deep sleep and you body is nice and relaxed…you begin to see a beautiful white sandy beach; your sitting down having a drink, enjoying the sun; seeing the people talking and the children playing and then you see this one incredibly hot looking babe in a bitsy-tiny white bikini walking towards, then she reaches and with a smile she says, “Hello” in a sultry voice. Your speechless, dumb-founded, all that came out of your mouth was a bunch or babble, so she laughs and sits down next to you…of course you can’t remove your eyes from her and then she says to you, “My name is Yolanda”, you think to your self…hmmm…yummy Yolanda, then you say to her, “oh nice to meet you Yolanda”, she giggles and then leans towards you and whispers in your ear…”Who in the hell is Yolanda” and then you feel a hard slap in the head and the next thing you know your next to your partner, who at the moment is boiling hot, hands crossed in front of her…breathing hard. Once again the question is blurted out, “Who is Yolanda…or Yummy Yolanda”. Your not sure what is going on…your confused…your head hurts from the dream and the smack, so you blurt out the only thing that comes to mind, “WHO”.

Then your dearest says, “What do you mean WHO, Yolanda, the woman you called out while you were sleeping and called Yummy (sarcastically)”. So at this point you start remember parts of the dream and of course the white bikini pokes you in the ribs. At this point you don’t know what to say, and of course being a man…the only thing that comes out is, “Ahhh come on…it was only a dream…it doesn’t mean anything…I don’t know any Yolanda…go back to sleep. So you roll over and throw the covers over you and hope that your dearest does the same thing. “Hmmm”, she says and turns off the lights and lays down…of course she mumbles loud enough for you to hear, “This isn’t over yet…We’ll talk about this in the morning”.

So, I am wondering how many of you have had something like this happen to you or your love one. You know, having a dream about someone else and then mentioning the name while you sleep. I have seeing quite a few relationships broken up for things like this. So, the thing is…is it right for a love one to get upset over a dream? I mean, in many cultures dreams are taken seriously because it could have some meaning behind them. I know a few people that have to run out and look up to see what their dream meant. If you look at medical studies, or topics on dreams, it seems that dreams are manifested…ok big word…dreams come from real life experiences that have possibly impacted your day. People believe that, if you had a dramatic/impacting experience throughout the day, such as stress or excitement that can lead to a dream. I don’t know…the thing is…sometimes relationships get into trouble…because of a dream.

“What are your thoughts…have you had this happen to you, please share.”

My Perspective:
I think there is some truth behind a connection between your daily experiences and dreams. You see I recall several month ago I was having trouble sleeping…I kept having these vivid dreams…sort of scary…I kept seeing shadows.and they felt so real…so I would jump out of bed sweating. This went on for several months and I kept mentioning to my dearest that I feel something is wrong.I can’t put my finger on it…she actually didn’t say a thing…sort of brushed it off...oh well. Anyhow, I have been under a lot of pressure…my life can really get busy at times…well actually all the time it’s a crazy day. Anyhow, back to my dreams or shadows; so I kept having bad, sleepless nights and I seriously was getting tired of…comical is-in-it…so I decides to look to see what might be the cause…so I started to pay more attention to my days…to see what might be triggering these shadows that are causing me to wake up in the middle of the night sweating. So let me tell you what I finally found out the cause…I think you’ll find this interesting. One day as I was getting home from work…I ran into a neighbor…we exchanged pleasantries and went on our separate ways. Now, let me tell you this guy is over 6’7” maybe taller…he is a giant. So, anyhow…that night once again as I was sleeping I had another site of a shadow…but this time I didn’t jump up or get scared…I stared at the shadow and got a shape out of it…so you know what shape it was…it was a tall, thin shape…when I looked closer I saw the shape of my neighbor…sure enough at that moment the shadow disappeared and I went back to sleep…restful. Now I didn’t have an argument with my neighbor…I realized that all my shadows where the last (impressive) image I had seen for the day. As I look back I finally started remember the other shadows I was seeing. So, I released that my stressful days together with the last impressive thing I saw was giving me nightmares (sort of speaking). So what I am doing now before I go to sleep, I wind-down, relax, take my mind some where else…this may sound corny, but it works for me and now I actually sleep through the night. Ok let me rephrase that…I have a new born…so sleep is not an options, but at l4east I got past my shadowy nights. So, I think there is some connection between your everyday experiences and dreams.

Thanks for reading and until next time, sleep well.

How Did Your Mate Make you Cheat?

Now, I know I have touch on this topic a few other times, but this is on the other side of the spectrum. You know we always hear about the cheating husband, boyfriend, wife, or girlfriend…and how horrible it was to find out. Now, my question is:

“If you cheated, why did you cheat? What made you cheat?”

Now, I have heard a few responses and here is one that I found to be very common…now the percent of men to woman that response in this way is different…more men than women responded this way. Ok, so…the reason they cheated was because their significant other was not satisfying them, either by not performing at all or if performing then there was no passion.

Let me elaborate; one man said that his partner was giving it to him maybe once a month and even when it came down to it…she just did it…no fore-play, no oral, nothing…just that she got on top and that was it. Now, one woman explains that she has had a rough day, with the kids, cleaning, cooking and running errands. Then her husband comes home and relaxes, which she doesn’t mind, and as soon as the kids are in bed…he wants to get between sheets…all she wants is a little time to her self. Now, of course she gives in and when it comes down to it…he wants to get all freaky and do things she just doesn’t want to do or is to tired to do and it ends up being a wham-bam thank you mam night. Ok, I also got a response from a woman that says her husband doesn’t want to do it as much as he use to and well…upfront she is a horn-dog and well…she started looking else where. The scenarios are many, but the most common thing I noticed between all these cases is…they just don’t get satisfied with their partner…whether it is was a quickie or nothing or the missing play time…they just don’t get satisfied and the look else where for that satisfaction. Te thing that gets to me is when you first meet someone…its on…bedroom, coffee table, this way, that way…with lingerie, in the shower…well you get the point…you can’t keep your hands off of each other…where does it go. Ok…now some people tell me it’s hard when you have children…you never know when they might burst in on you…well…lock the door…leave them at your mother’s house…find a way to have a night of passion with your significant other…you will both feel better…your relationship will improve…find the time.

Ok, now here is the funny thing…in one of the responses…the woman caught her husband having an affair with another woman, the thing is the wife was having an affair with the other woman’s husband…somehow they had swapped…without knowing…of course later it all came to light. Now what’s even funnier that each complained about each others lack of their partner doing fore-play, oral or trying new things, yet they were doing it with each others husband or wife…so then I have to say that all this cheating is probably caused by one thing…the lack of being attracted to your partner…hmm…could that be it.

“So, If you cheated, why did you cheat? What made you cheat?”

My Perspective:
This could be a touchy perspective but I’ll put it out there and see what you think…remember this is my perspective and it could mean nothing…without all the variables of the relationship. Ok, so…”Don’t Cheat”…that’s my perspective…if you are thinking about it…talk to your partner…ask them what happen to the bedroom romance…you might be surprised. If it was the lack of you not performing or doing the things they want…then change….listen…if you want some loving…then you better satisfy them and in return it will satisfy you…or at least you’ll be getting some. Now, please this goes to both male and females…I totally understand about having an exhausting day and you probably are extremely tired…but marriage/relationship do take some work, which means tired or not…dress up, shower, keep fit for your partner. I mean don’t come home after a hard days work and not shower and expect some loving…and please don’t come out in a XXXXL T-shirt and baggy sweats and expect your partner to make love to you as he did when you first met. Not saying to go out and buy hundreds of dollars of lingerie…but you know something simple for the ladies could be…a shower, then come out a bit wet…wearing a tank-top (white) and some black or red panties (preferably a thong)…that will drive any sensible man crazy. No need for costly lingerie.

Guys…come one…take a shower, come out in some satin briefs or PJs, a tank top or open shirt. Now the fit thing…that’s an optional thing…I think…you know it’s always nice to stay fit, but if you and your partner have some love-handles…I am sure you can get past that and straight to the…well…you know. So…don’t cheat…you’ll get caught eventually…it always happens…always…whether a week, month, year…you’ll get caught and more than likely the person you are cheating with will probably get tired.
Talk to your partner…come to a compromise…she might like it this way…you might like it that way…compromise…and if toys are needed..come on guys…suck it up…take my word for it…if she wants a toy…let her have it…watch her use it…believe me she will get satisfied and there is anything more exotic than seeing a women and a toy…hey…you’ll get your chance and by then she would have been to the moon and back…so…you know.
Shower – Talk – Take care of each other.

Till next time, thanks for reading and I look forward to your responses,

Is it Wrong?

Welcome to another posting, I really appreciate you coming back…ok…so here is an interesting topic or better said an interesting question.

“Is it wrong to go through your mates phone or is it even worse to ask them and then they say no?"

I ran into a friend while getting coffee a cafeteria and we started chatting. I asked him how his girlfriend was doing and he sort of gave me a blank look and told me that they were no longer together. I told him I was sorry to hear that and what had happen, if he didn’t mind me asking about it. He started by saying that cell phone suck…of they don’t, but from his comment that their breakup had to do something with the cell phone. So, he told what had happen.

Let me start from the beginning, they had been dating for about a month and before they got together my friend had a lot of girl-friends, plutonic only.
Well, not that I am on his side, but the guy was totally into this girl…and believe me when I say that he isn’t a player…he might be a good looking guy…but he couldn’t be a player even if he tried…anyhow, so…I am not going to make this long. This friend of mine has had the same phone and number for 10 years…yah…it’s a pretty ugly phone, but he likes and it works for him. Anyhow, so he has had this phone for a long time and this guy is a really cool guy…easy to get along with…and he has a lot of friends. The thing is, even the ladies…enjoy talking to him and he still as friends that he new from his previous job of 5 years…they just happen to always keep in touch and they like asking him for his opinion. So his cell phone is full of people…both woman and men. Anyhow, he met his girlfriend at a party put on between two mutual friends and they hit it off, he really liked her and it seems she liked him so they started dating and eventually ended up hooking up. Now, during the dating time…she (the girlfriend) had met a lot of his friends, both woman and men…you know while going out to parties, get gatherings, things like that. Now, it seemed like everything was going ok, they both agreed on renting an apartment together and moving in. So they went ahead and signed a 1-year lease and started living together. Around the 2 month of them living together it seems she was starting to become a bit confined,…better said she began to close up…to him. She wouldn’t want to go out as much, always told him to go ahead with out her and on most occasions he wouldn’t go and stayed with her watching movies. He didn’t think of it much, you know her modes, actions, the way she was acting…he just sort off went with it.

It seems that several weeks had past just after the sudden change where she started asking him who he was talking to on the phone every time it would ring. Of course he would tell her it was Julia, or Bret, or whomever he was talking to. The thing is that one day, when the phone did ring she pick up his cell phone and saw a name of a woman she did not recognize, now remember they had only been dating and living together for about 2 months, and she totally freaked out, so she started looking through his phone book. He happened to be in the shower and when he came out she was on him like a tiger. She started asking him who was Joan and then she started going down the list of women on his phone cell of women she did not know. So, he started to want to explain, but she just got more angry and before he could get in a word, she had stomped out of the house and weird thing is she never came back…even for her things. Any how my friend was totally taken by this and could not believe what had happen.

My friend was a bit worried because they had just signed a lease and he could pay the monthly rent, but he did find a roommate and they removed her from the lease, he eventually was able to get a hold of one of her friends and give back her belongings…now you got to hear this. On his way to his ex-girlfriend house, his mom happened to be along for the ride simply because he was dropping her off some where. Well, he got to the place and sure enough his Ex was there…she looked at him and asked him who was that in the car…his new girlfriend…well…he looked at her and said…that’s Joan…my mother. He said the expression on her face was one to send into “Americas Funniest Videos” and win the grand price. He turned around and walked away. Now, as we were talking, his phone rings and sure enough it was his ex-girlfriend…he didn’t pickup, but he just looked at me and said, “You know I don’t understand why she had to go through my phone, it's my personal space, I never hid anything from her and never gave her a reason to ever doubt me, but going through my phone was totally uncalled for and the worst part of it was, she never let me explain anyone of her accusations…so why…he asked”.

My Perspective:
I believe that a relationship is built on trust and communication and without these two things a relationship will not work. I personally don’t think someone should go through some else’s phone, wallet or personal items. If you feel they maybe cheating on you, because that’s the main reason anyone would look through someone else’s things, then ask them…talk. If you still don’t get the satisfaction and you don’t believe them…then there is no trust and no real communication and you need to move on. Why would you waste you life trying to catch someone in a lie…if you have doubts...it won’t work. Believe me…there is someone out there that will truly be the one where you can be happy, live without doubt and just love. So, no I don’t think it's right for someone to go through some ones cell phone; if there is no trust…there is no need.

Thanks for reading, I look forward to your responses and until next time.

Spicing up Your Sex Lives

Ok…this might not be the best of all topics right now…but this is my blog…just kidding. Like I said, in today’s economic times, this is probably the last thing on anyone’s mind, but actually, when you come to think about it… this is a great time to talk about it…whether here in a post or with your significant other. I mean…ok…well…you know some say that money is not everything…yet we still need it…unless we live like Grizzle Adams…we still need. Yah the topics among couple is economic hardships…and these are the times that most couples forget about the most important thing in that relationship…and that is them.

Now, you need to talk about how to get through these tough times…that’s important for the future, but…we can’t forget the individuals involved…you and your significant other…that make up the team, pair, or couple that are trying to make it through these tough times. So let’s talk about taking a break from the media and all the negative talk out there about the economy and focus some of that energy on you - the couple.

One topic that is touched on between couples is, “How to spice up the sex Lives”. When you first meet someone…the natural attraction takes over and the first time you make love is hopefully, extra-ordinary, unforgettable. Both of you can’t keep your hands off of each other the first several weeks, maybe months…or maybe it’s not that passionate, but you truly enjoy each other. Now, sometimes…well wait…I have to say most of the times that go away over the years, whether in a marriage or a long relationship. And I hear this from friends, acquaintances or I see it on talk shows, news, internet and other blogs that, "my husband or wife doesn’t make love to me anymore." I look and listen, and 9 times out of 10…they are opposite in questions of their sex drive…either the man is overly sexed or the woman, but for some reason…and they have their reasons, they are match up with a complete opposite of their sexual desires…and unfortunately that puts strain on there relationship. Not that I am suggestion it is the most important thing in a relationship, but it is the number one cause for adultery or broken relationships...it's true and unfortunate.

I mean I have people tell me…well yah I don’t want to have sex with him anymore because he is not as passionate as before, or he just jumps on top and bam wham thank you mam. Ok…if that is the case…then talk…tell him how you feel…let him know that you want that passion back….not just sex, but the whole thing that should come with making love…passion. Of course I have some men telling me that they are passionate, bring flowers, open the door, cook, and make love as if it was the first time, but the woman just lays there…and then it seems more like a obligation…like I said…everyone has there story to tell…but if you don’t talk no one will know...especially your significant other.

Maybe the fire isn’t there anymore…but the love is…so what in this case. Say you are married and are totally in love…and would never change anything about the relationship…but one of you does enjoy making love…then come to a compromise…talk about it…maybe you can both come to an agreement on the topic where you both are satisfied, so that there is no feeling of obligation or frustration, but of mutual agreement/enjoyment. You are 2 adults and you do care for one another…so then…take the time to talk.

My Perspective:

I see communication being at the root of many of these issues. It seems people do not communicate anymore. Many families now have both parents working and no time to just talk. So for me...my perspective is...communicate with your significant other and talk things out...if that doesn't seem to be working...I think moving on is the best for both parties. I know that children maybe in the middle...but when it comes down to it...your relationship also affects them...so talk to them on your decision...communication I think is a great solutions for amny things.

Once again thanks for reading, till next time.

Would You Leave Your Mate?

Now, this is something that I always hear about…the ”million dollar question” sort of speaking…ok…so here it is. Say you won the Lottery…say you won $100-$150 million dollars, the question is, “would you leave your mate? And why?”

Now, I went ahead and asked a few people this question and was surprised that I got a variety of answers, let me share a few.

One lady told me that she would leave her husband of 5 years and the reason is, because he has gotten stingy since they have gotten marriage, but she did say that she would help pay of the mortgage and give him a little spending money…she did emphasis little spending money. Now, I guy told me, he would not leave his mate…because he said, “she was with me through bad times and now I want to share with her the good-times…nice choice of words.

So the question is…would you leave your mate if you won the lottery and if you did why?

My Perspective:

I guess it would have to be an answering that would “Depend” on the situation. First of all…in many states the winnings would be split 50/50 if you were married so there is no way out of at least sharing in the good fortune. Now, the question is would you leave your mate…once again I return to the answer where it would “Depend” on the situation. If your relationship is not going well, but then maybe this would be the right moment to both sit down and decide its time to call it quits and the each take ½ and leave in good terms. Now, if you have a great relationship where the honeymoon never ended…then maybe this is the best time to extend that honeymoon into a long life partnership and travel. So let me here what you have to say…if you won the Lottery would you leave your mate and if you do why?

Thanks for reading and I look forward to the feedback…till next time,

Throwing Shoes

If you recall the gentleman that threw his shoes at Former President, Mr. Bush at a news conference in Iraq, well he was sentenced to 3 years in an Iraqi prison.

So here is my question to you.

“If you had the opportunity to throw you shoes at anyone…anyone at all…who would you throw them at? And why would you throw them at that person?”

Now, I asked a few people around my work and here were some of there responses:

• Rihana – simply because she went back to Chris.
• Octo-mom – because there is so much media on her these days that I am getting sick of it.
• Shoe Makers – because they just can’t make a “White” pair of shoes; everything has to have neon colors.

My Perspective:
It’s hard for me to say who I would throw my shoes at, but if I did…maybe it would be all those ‘Lenders” that just will not work with the borrowers that have Adjustable Rate Mortgages and lock them into a 30 year fixed rate. So that the homeowners mortgage payments stop going up. If they did lock them in, then maybe they could put in a provisioning saying that the borrower could not refinances for 5 years or something. I guess we all have our opinion and complaints, but please leave your response…it would be interesting to see who it would be…hey maybe we will a top person that people want to throw their shoes at.

Thanks again, and see you soon.

How Do You Cheat

Welcome to another post and one that won’t be too long, but an interesting topic. I caught on the last end of this conversation while I was in a Cafeteria. Two women in the table next to me were talking, from the sound of it one of the women was pretty upset and was telling the other woman her story. Not that I was ease dropping, and as I said I only caught the end part.

Well the woman was saying that she caught her husband cheating, and he had being doing it for a year without her ever knowing it. This is how her ex-husband did it. It seems the guy had a job that required a Route and every day he got home later and later, of course she never expected a thing and thought it was just part of his job and possibly an increase in sales or something. Well it seems the guy had purchased a disposable phone…you know one with pay-as-you go minutes. Well the guy never brought the phone home and left it in the Truck. It seems the husband was talking to this other woman on the disposal phone, and meeting up with the other woman on a daily basis…which of course made him come home later and later. Well it seemed that a year had gone by and the other woman finally realized that he (the husband) was never going to leave his wife…so she decided to call the wife at home and guess what the guy (husband) was right outside the other woman’s home.

So I started thinking, what an interesting topic, not that I am for it, but I thought it was interesting. I asked myself, “How do People Cheat?” if there are people out there cheating how are they doing it. I was driving home and a friend called me and I told him about the subject and he started laughing…well he said I could tell you how my ex-girlfriend use to do it. When I first met my ex-girlfriend she told me from the beginning that she had a lot of guy friends…just friends…and she does talk to them and she hopes that I understood. I thought (this is my friend) of course no problem. We dated and eventually become a couple, of course her cell phone would ring ever so often and it was another guy (friend)…I never thought differently. This went on for about 5 months, until one day while we were both out and about…a another guy approached us and started up on her and of course looking at me…it seems he was her guy too. Well, she just blew both of us off and these were her words, “I told you both when we first met that I have a lot of guy friends, you accepted it now live with it”. Now, that totally blew me away and I just walked away. The thing is as I was walking away…I looked behind me and I could see the other brushed her off and he walked the opposite direction. She eventually called me a few days later…I never picked up…but man was she hot.

Ok, wow I thought here are two stories about how people cheated. One guy bought a disposable cell phone and used his route as an excuse for one year, the other was a woman that up front told the guys that she had a lot of guy friends and that was her excuse to have a lot of guy (boy friends)…lol. The thing is that in both cases they cheaters got caught; whether it was 1-year or 5 months…they eventually got caught.

So my question out to you is: if you cheated or are cheating, “How do You Cheat?”. I would love to see some replies on this subject and your method of cheating. I will let it go for about a week and hope to see some replies, then I will give my perspective on the subject.

Once again thanks for visiting and until next time,

The Pondering Question

"What if we get to the end of our life and realize it was all wrong?"

I had to share this, I was speaking to a very close friend and in our communications the following comment was presented to me, “So I read this question in an email early this morning and I can't get it out of my head.” Now, I read the question and was very intrigued by it…I mean I had to stop and think about my crazy-busy life and where I stood. You know I have heard this so many times before…”why am I here, what’s my purpose” and believe me…I hear this a lot, “ I shouldn’t have been born or I wish I was dead”. Yah those are very discerning statements and are hard to swallow. But there are millions of people that feel this way and it is something that I wanted to touch on.

As you read the question, above, I want you to be sitting (probably are) and have a note pad and pencil handy…ok...it’s strange, but I wasn’t you to try this. Read the question and then on your note pad…write two columns….and label each column as follows: “Positive” and “Negative”…now make sure not to write your name or anything…this is just something for you personally. I would highly recommend that you do this over a few days or weeks span…because if you try and write everything down in one sitting…you will probably skip a lot of things and the purpose here is to write down as much if not everything that would go in either column.

Now, think about the question. On the “Positive Column” write down all the things that you are happy with, things that had a positive impact on you or are having a positive impact on you. Now it could the smallest thing, such as my coffee was great today. So start writing things that might have impacted your childhood, your adolescent, your college, your first job, your perfect attendance award. Just write down the things that are positive…it could be a huge list…actually it should a huge list. Now on the “Negative column”, write down the things that have had or are having a negative impact on your life, it could be a small thing, such as my coffee was horrible today…etc. Write down everything, bad relationships, a childhood bully or your first date…things that have had or are having a negative impact.

Once you have completed or feel that you could not write any more, then don’t even look at the list…put it away…whether you have had more negative things in your life than positive…I am certain that you have had some positive things in your life and those whether few or a lot…should be enough to let you know that you are just like many people in this world…and that you are part of it and it is ok to have some negative things in our lives. Maybe this is the time for you to check on your path…see if you are doing what you can to move forward…because I have to say…if you have taken the time to read up to this point of my blog…then that means you understand and you see that its possible that you need to reflect and see where you are at. I could continue on this subject…and it is interesting, but everything aside…I think we are all doing just fine with our lives…yah some us take a bad path, make bad choices, and sometimes it seems we can get out of a bad situation…but everyday that you wake up…its another opportunity for you to try again.

My Perspective
You know if we start living each day as a “Question of why”…then are whole life will be just that…I see each day as a new day, an opportunity, a chance to do the right thing or to do the things we want to. Yah sometimes it feels like we get thrown under a bus, but as you can tell…we continue on…we move forward.

Yah sometimes we make bad choices, but then again if we made all the right choices and did all the right things…I honestly would think life would be boring. That’s what is great about life…the choices we have…they are ours to make and live with, of course, we have to think of each past experience as a learning experience…and seriously learn from it…that’s what makes us so unique…we can evolve and it has shown throughout existence of humankind.

For all the reasons people might think that their life was not right…I bet that somewhere in there existence are things that were right, their children, their friends, their first love, that first taste of chocolate. You know if at the end of my time I realized my life was all wrong…I would have to disagree…and you know why…because I could never say that meeting those people I call friends was wrong. I have indirectly touch your life with one of my posts or maybe made you laugh, or think or maybe it is just a way to eat up some time at work, the things is those people I call friends are in my life and I think that makes up for all the bad choices I may have made.

Now, if someone reads that question and has doubts…I think that’s a reality check for them….and maybe it’s time to analyze their prospective on their life and what they want out of it. It made me think and I certainly don’t want to start getting negative at this point…maybe it’s time to adjust to the things around us and start being happy.

Thanks for reading, see you soon,

Marriage and Relationships – More on the Subject

Welcome back to another post entry…before I start…I wanted to mention to please come back often as I am working on posting Podcasts…I will be traveling around town and interviewing people on such topics as relationships, finance, business, and well other things. I think getting the scoop straight from the streets will be something worth the while…it will be interesting to say the least.

Ok, well I get to touch on the “Marriage and Sex” topic I posted a while back…I am always looking to see what others think and most importantly say about some of the topics I have and I was able to catch this real life experience.

So I was listening to a couple and on a talk show…no not the Jerry Springer show…lol. But any how…the topic was about sex after marriage or there the lack of. The first couple laid out there story…and of course it always starts of the same…the y meet…they fell in love…the sex was great…and constant…maybe 2 or 3 times a day. They get married and “BAM”…it goes out the window. Now, this couple was interesting because in this case the man was complaining on how much his wife wanted to do the thing, he said, “I would come from work and before we even said 1-word she was already taking of my pants”. He mentioned that he came home from work and was tired and was looking forward to a hot meal…which wasn’t prepared (not that it should be).and then she wanted to use toys, do it in not-so-discrete places…such as the beach. She said that one of her fantasies was to do it on the beach with lots of people around…wow. So the host asks the man…how many times a day should they do it…he said,”3 times week”. Now here is the funny part…the host and the audience bashed the guy for not wanting it more…and then told the wife…she better get more batteries for her toys…since it was going to be a long night…poor guy…he was being bashed on not wanting to do it more with his wife…absurd…huh…yah right.

Ok…now…the next couple comes on…total opposite. The husband wants it every night and the wife says…she thinks maybe twice a week should be enough. Now the thing is the host and the audience condemned the husband on being a sex addict….go figure. One guy gets hammered for not wanting enough and the other guy for wanting it too much. I was totally taken by that, as I was watching I said to myself…maybe the couple should switch…lol…ok…not nice…but do you see what I see…I don’t know maybe since I am a guy…I could be looking into this the wrong way…but come on.

So that topic has been on my mind, so why is it that men or woman loose interest in having sex with their significant other. I mean I know there are many variable, like children, careers, and maybe a myriad of other things…but I see as…if you both enjoyed the sex before marriage why should it change…I mean two consenting adults…smart…should know balance in their life will make a marriage work. If you put more weight on one thing…that could lead to a problem. I think couples need to make time for each other…maybe a date night…alone time…no TV…no Games…glass of wine, a cold beer or what ever fancy them…and afterwards have some passionate sex….I don’t know…I could be just blowing smoke…and I know that sex isn’t everything…really I do…but that’s it…what if a couple met, and they really didn’t do much in the bedroom…maybe once a week…but you see…they consented to that lifestyle…they got married and no changes…that’s where I am coming from. It’s weird but you get couples that either the man likes it too much or it’s the woman who likes it too much and they are paired up with the complete opposite. Now, that I am thinking about it…I think that is a subject that should be discussed before marriage…so that there is a clear understanding of where the subject on sex stands between the couple. I am not saying that sex should be the reason behind a relationship…but seriously it is a topic that has broken up marriages, relationships for decades and it happened before and it is happening now.

My Perspective:
Marriage is between two people that love and cherish each other…everything about that person should be the thing you love, being with them, hugging, kissing, their values, their self being…I mean it is for ever…or at least it should be…so why not make sure that everything about that person, their habits, their hands…I mean everything you should love…enjoying each other is important…that will bring closeness and comfort to the relationship. I mean do you remember the first time you guys did it…it was amazing…it should be that way all the time…and if it starts to move away from that…talk…get it back on track…it might take some toys, some role playing…nothing out of the ordinary (I would think)…but things that you both agree on. Don’t let that passion go…yah money can’t buy happiness or money is noteverything…but is sure makes life pleasant…the same with sex…it’s not everything…but boy does it make life pleasant. So grab your significant other and go out on a date, send the kids to there grandparents, ask your roommate to spend the night somewhere else…or if all that fails rent a hotel room…but make the time…I know…it will make you both feel close again.

Now, if you are absolutely in a bad relationship…I think its time to move on…believe me its not worth it…there are so many people out there looking as you are…time heals wounds…time will be on your side…you will find that one right person. I know there is not a Mr. right or Ms. right…but darn it…if you don’t try and look and talk before taking the plunge…I mean think about it…it’s the rest of your life that you are talking about and it should be spent happy…well for the most part of.

Well, enough about that for now, I look forward to your comments and I will touch again on this subject. So many aspects of a relationship…it all has to balance and don’t tell me it can’t…we are unique creatures and we have flown to the moon, gone to the deepest part of the ocean…I think we can make a relationship work…if we put some effort into it.

Thanks for reading and see you soon

Gamers; MMORPG – Massively Multiplayer Online Role-Playing Game

Here is a post for all you Online Gamers…you know who you are…World of Warcraft, Everquest, Lord of the Rings, Vanguard…well the list can go on. I guess I have to say that gaming has risen to a whole new level…I mean I recall back in the day when I would head on over to a friends house to do some gaming…Dungeons and Dragons (D&D) was the game back in the day and let me tell you it was FUN. Ok…I know many still do D&D…its just that once my old dungeon master stop playing…I tried someone else and well it wasn’t the same.

Now with all these online games existing on the internet…and the capability of playing with someone ½ way around the world…I guess that makes it really exciting. I have to admit on one thing…I do play ever so often…Everquest II. Now, its funny how I started with this game and I honestly, if anyone told me 10 years ago that I would be playing an online game…I would have just laughed. And at my age…hey I would have laughed harder.

Anyhow, here is the story. I had been married for 8 years…and well things were not going all that well…I guess it happens in a lot of marriages. Ok so, in 2005 my significant other started up on playing Billiards on yahoo…I mean she got so good that she was ranking extremely high…if I recall you had a number associated with you and the bigger the number the better player you were. Anyhow, she would play for hours…ok let me back up a bit…we have a son…and as soon as he was in bed…7:30 or 8:00pm it was of to billiard land and nothing else matter. Ok…so my thing is I got married because I would think as being married you would have someone to talk to, dream with, be with, laugh with, plan with…well you know…I didn’t think that marriage would eventually lead to the same feeling as having a roommate…oi. Anyhow, so that was our relationship…if you want to call it that. I of course could have joined in her gaming, but honestly…I would rather play billiard in real life with a pitcher of beer, hot wings, music and my significant other…but that was not happening in my household. Ok, so I started working at a new place….and long story short…I worked with a group of people that were nerds, computer geeks...well maybe not geeks, anyhow…they were about to engage in a new game, at that time, called Everquest II. I of course was new and didn’t get too involved or better said, I really did not know anyone…ok…they asked me if I wanted to play with them. I had no clue on what it meant, so here is a brief summary: Everquest II, as many other MMORPG games is a online make believe world where you get to create a character that you build and choose from the many races, humans, Ogres, etc. and a profession such as Wizard, Knight, etc. to play with in this make believe world. You do adventures, quests, you get a house, clothing, armor, accessories and well…it’s pretty much a make believe world where you interact with the environment and you get to interact with other players (individuals).

Ok, so I said to myself why not…hey my significant other is immersed in her game, why not start something I might like…so I did. Of course I told her and she just kind of brushed it off and said, “Cool”. So I was playing for about a month and she would ever so often look over to my screen and see what I was doing…she asked me questions on who that character was…what was I doing…and later she was amazed that I was playing with someone that was living in England. Well, she asked if she could try…well…I said sure…so she made a character…and away she went…she really liked it…so eventually we got her an account and transferred her character to her account and computer…she began playing. It was fun and dandy the first several months sense we were actually doing something together, but honestly I can’t be sitting on my butt for hours…I mean we had other obligations that were beginning to be neglected…and well I liked the game and all, but I would rather sit and have a beer, glass of wine or a hot coco and chat with my significant other…ok…ok…I am not being a pansy…but come on…if this is the case…I might as well stayed with my roommate…ok…ok. Well...you know what I mean…lol. So that was back in November of 2005…we are now in March of 2009…and we have another addition to the family…and the gaming continues…but now she runs her own guild and she has become a popular character with many…many other characters…they look for her to help out with quests, etc. Funny thing is…there are actual websites out there for woman against MMORPG games…in these sites there are stories about how woman hate the games and how those games broke up their marriage, because their husbands would play hours on end…I mean one story said her husband quit his job and only played…wow…I was amazed.

Any how, I guess I am only venting here…but I think that if you get into a marriage…whether you are a health nut, a gamer, a gardening fanatic…I think you need to make sure that you both enjoy each others company away from those things to be together and I am not saying you should forget or give up the things you like to do, but don’t let them strain your marriage or relationship…find a balance and remember you got married or are in a relationship because you enjoy being with them, their conversation, holding their hand, talking about everything and anything.

Thanks for listening and come back again…maybe you will get a good laugh or maybe you could relate…any and all comments are welcomed.

“Love, Peace and Chicken Grease”…as a friend use to say to me…LOL,

Celebrities – Above the Law

This has been a hot topic in the news…Chris Brown and Rihanna it seems Chris has been charged on two counts, now the question is…will he serve time?

For many…many years we have heard of cases against Celebrities from assault, fraud, and even murder that have been charged, but very seldom do they ever do anytime in prison…some even get out of community services…so where does the line get drawn on that type of power or money. I mean you know and I know if that was me or you we would b behind bars, and depending on the accusation…probably be in prison for a very long time…or like I said depending on the crime…we would be doing community services for years…I don’t know…its hard to touch on the subject…and to try and give an opinion well…sometimes …well you know what I mean. The allegations are as follows:

Chris Brown allegedly tried to push Rihanna out of the car he was driving, slammed her head against the car window, and punched her. He also, allegedly, said, “I’m going to beat the —-- out of you when we get home.” When Rihanna was able to call and leave a message for her assistant (telling her to call the police), Brown supposedly said, “You just did the stupidest thing ever. I’m going to kill you.”

I guess if you or I were in their position, not that it makes it right, just saying if you or I were in their position and we had the money they posses…I know that money, unfortunately, talks and those expensive lawyers always…always find loop-holes in our judicial system. Now, does it make it right for them to get away with things? What about the million of individuals out there that need to steal to feed there family…I mean that’s not an excuse, but where do we draw the line on who should follow the laws and regulation of this country or any country. The thing is I was listening to the radio and so many opinions on the Chris and Rihanna issue, many of the callers kept saying that they believe Chris will not do time or even see the inside of a jail cell. Many callers also voiced about woman’s rights and how woman have changed their view about themselves over the last decade…it seems many woman have lots the self respect, self independence about them…so now its ok for these things to happen, because it happens to everyone else…ok…hey that’s what the callers were saying.

So whether you agree or disagree…I think that no one…and I mean no one should have to put up with abuse…and even if everyone in the world is doing it…it’s time to let everyone else continue on, but you need to change your life. If you are in an abusive relationship…get some help…don’t wait…and if your significant other promises to change…them let them…but you need to get out…and once they has changed…and I mean really…not a 2-week anger management course either…but really changed…then start dating again…start fresh don’t just jump back in right away…and then get caught up in the web again…if they changed and care…they will wait and start all over again to try and win your affection and most importantly your trust.

Visit www.ndvh.org a site dedicated to assist those in a domestic violent relationship…take the first step.

So back to Chris and Rihanna topic, do you think Chris will do any time in prison? How many of you think he will:

· Serve prison time,
· Do community services,
· Pay a fine and walk away,
· Get the charges dropped.

I appreciate you stopping by and please come back often I look forward to your responses on this topic. Take care and be safe.

Text Messaging

I was listening to the radio on my way into work today and I am sure you did hear or heard about the Los Angeles commuter train crash that killed 25 people last year…well the headline was that the Engineer was text messaging when the incident happen…actually 22 seconds before the crash he had sent out a text message. Now the thing is that investigations also concluded that the Engineer of the other train was also text messaging…so…now I am totally up and up with today’s technology, you know its all about the convenience. But you know I honestly think there needs to be some kind of line drawn.

The thing is there was also more evidence indicating that the supervisor also new that the engineer had an over abundance of on-duty cell phone usage…people working at the commuter new about his problems and yet he still managed the commuter. In one quote,

“It raises questions for me about what the heck else was going on out there”.

I mean think about that…I have been driving along and I could see in the car next to me the person text messaging…I mean the phone is right on the steering wheel.and they sway back and forth on there lane…while other drivers blow their horn…come on now. Its not just text messaging, its cell phone usage as well…even with today’s laws…people are still talking on the phone and driving. It doesn’t stop there…there are people eating, putting on make up, shaving, looking around on the car floor…looking for what who knows…its bananas.

Sorry, I got of the actual topic, but…I have to say…what will it take to besides warning signs, red flags…to look on…before anything happens…you know it always turns out that days, weeks or months have gone by and all the signs or indications of problems were there whether it was with the machinery, the person, the whatever…and nobody did anything to resolve the issue at that time…come on people…red flags…even the slightest indications….let’s start there and correct the problem before something tragic happens.

I could go on and on, but everyone has their opinion, some think…”hey I could text and drive and I have been for years…nothing has ever happen to me”, that’s great and let’s hope it stays that way, but those individuals that engage in other activities while driving also put others at risk…so are we selfish…or can we do something about it.

This is how I see it…for those that want to eat, put on make up, and shave while driving…come on…get up an extra 5-10 minutes earlier each day…your life and those around you deserve it. And for those texting or talking on the phone…seriously…it can wait till you come to a complete stop…why in the world would you pick up the phone just to argue with someone…hey…you know its true…9 out of 10 people I have talked to…always tell me…that they are talking to there significant other…and most of the time its an argument…why would you put your self through that…while you are driving. And for those individuals calling people while they are driving…if you love them…really love them…and even though you might be boiling mad about something…it can wait…let them drive and get to their destination safely…wouldn’t you hate for them not to make it to their destination and the last thing you both said to each other was hurtful things…guilt and sadness are a terrible combination…please drive safely.

Thanks again for stopping by, till next time,

Should a Man Tell a Woman She’s Fat?

I was driving into work this morning and I caught this topic on the radio, and actually the full topic was:

"Should a Man Tell a Woman if she is Fat? How should a man tell a woman? Does a woman want to know it?"

So I was driving and I wanted to hear the answers…so after several songs and mixes…yah…I was surprise to have that many songs played in the morning…wow…usually it’s a lot of talking…anyways…so the first caller gets on the line and she says, “Its funny you guys, meaning the radio show hosts, brought up this topic…you see my husband a few days ago told that he remembered when I was “Smaller”, that is the word he used…and now well…you look “Bigger”. He also said, “he was a sex addict when they first met and when we married and you started gaining weight I toned it down…you know the whole marriage thing…but now…well…you are ‘Bigger’ that’s what the husband told her”. So the women on the radio tells the radio hosts, he has to be kidding, he is the one to talk and the guy is bald, huge beer belly and them chicken legs he has…well…of course the woman was upset and that started a huge fight with her husband.

So the Radio host, comments on the caller…and her chicken legs husband, he says, “He needs to look in the mirror first before even touching the subject about you, the wife. Guy can’t tell a woman (wife, partner, girlfriend) she is fat if he’s fat….boy needs to hit the gym and look in the mirror before touching that subject with you, the wife.” Now I have to agree with that comment…but still no answer on whether a woman wants to hear that.

So that was one, then a next caller, woman told her story, you see she said, “I am from Atlanta and we are raised on Corn bread and good old home cooking and I use to hang out with this guy, do you know what this guy told me out of the blue one day while we were hanging out by the beach, “Girl you look like the sand…your all over…of course she doesn’t hang out with him anymore.

Now, they comment on the second caller, the hosts says, “There is definitely no need to use hard words, words that could hurt, so definitely that’s not the way to tell a woman she is fat or on the heavy side and if a man uses hurtful words…then he has some issues that he needs to go take care of”, that’s what the radio hosts says to the woman.

So, the thing is I never got to hear a woman’s opinion if a man should tell her she is gaining some weight, or if she even wants to hear it and if she does, how should a man touch on the subject? So…what do you think…ladies or gentlemen? I want to hear from you.

Should a Man Tell a Woman if she is Fat? How should a man tell a woman? Does a woman want to know it?

Thanks for reading and I look forward to any comments on this subject and please come back often Take care and hang in there.

A Bit More About Me

So I know this is barely the 4 or 5 entry and I do appreciate that you have come back these last few times to peruse my Blog. Now, I am going to give you a short story of one of the many things I have done to make additional money…later on I will definitely cover on each of the many businesses I have done or attempted and of course those I feel have been successful. I will definitely share with you all my marketing techniques. little by little, I have learned over the past 17 plus years…while promoting businesses on the world Wide Web and other typesof media.

So, anyways…it was about 18 years ago…I remember reading in some newspaper something about making money in “Flipping Notes”, and there was going to be a free seminar on the subject…of course I went and that is where I got my first taste of "business" and the whole concept that there is something out there that will make me money…and not just money, but residual income for the many years to come.

Anyhow, I went to this seminar…I was a young buck…and I sat of course at the very front of the seminar…excited, with a huge note pad and pencil…I didn’t have any fancy portfolio pad…like the many other large investors attending, but no matter…I was there to learn how I could make lots of money “Flipping Notes”. The way the speaker made his entrance was unforgettable…you see…the seminar was suppose to begin prompty at 9:00am, but no one was at the podium and well…5 minutes had gone by and people began to squirm in there seats…I was one of them, then all of a sudden we hear someone scream from the back of the audience, :”what’s going on here…you have to be kidding and they wants us to believe we can make money and they don’t even show up on time, what kind of scheme is this?”. Well, the man shouting got a few other people screaming, and some people began to get up looking around asking what was going on. The man continued on his thrashing and started walking up to the podium…he then did something we all awed in amazement…he got up on stage and started screaming into the microphone…well…you need to imagine the how everything looked, there were about 150 people in this seminar and well you could imagine that some folks started to shout as well.

Then about 5 minutes into this drama…something happen, the man began laughing…and said, “I guess I got your attention and your juices all going, I guess we could start the seminar”. The thing is the audience was silent, but then some began chuckling and soon everyone was laughing…you could hear through some whispers, “Wow, that was a great entrance…smart man” was being whispered. So the seminar began and the topic was Flipping Notes. Now I have to say that it actually is a great business to get into…I did further research, purchased a training manual and large list of companies that purchased Notes…so it was great. That first Friday I placed an ad in the Union Tribune and sure enough I got 12 calls on Saturday…resulting in 3 solid leads, then on Sunday I got another 8 calls and only 1 lead out of it…well…I was able to close on 1 deal…the others were more of a run around…but I made some money on that one deal…now unfortunately it wasn’t like that all the time, the next week I got maybe 10 calls the whole weekend and no solid leads…well all in all…I did this for about 8 months to be exact…the thing I found out was, I needed to get more exposure to solid leads and at that point in my life I wasn’t up to standards with the whole internet thing…so…anyhow…that is definitely one business I will pursue in the near future…with a bit more time and some better marketing planning. I need to locate that list once again and maybe get started on it. One thing I did notice in that little time in the business….people / investors really didn't look at young lads as a real business individuals…I was mostly shut down because of my age…but you know that was then…this is now. I'll touch more on the Flipping Notes subject...it really is a good business to get into...and all you need is Notes (TD's) and those that buy them...you do the leg work and make a nice chunk of change.

Well, thank you for reading and do plan on sharing more stories about the business I have done…I do recommend that you read a book called “Smart Trust Deed Investment in California (George Coats)”, it’s a good reading material on the subject about Note flipping…really and it won’t hurt to see what its all about. You can find it on Amazon. Now, I know it discusses Notes in California, but it really does give you a good idea. If you have any question let me know…and come back again so that you could read more about my business experiences…you’ll see that I have developed a business sense, marketing approach and good old fashion hard work into a pretty successful individual…ok…I am not a Bill gates…and yah I do live pay check to paycheck…but I definitely never give up…at least when it comes to finances....I do have certain financial vehicles that by the time I retire will give me that necessary residual income that will be all the worth while.

See you soon.

Thanks once again for visiting my Blog.

Free Resume Printing - FedEx

Good morning,

I wanted to share something I heard on the radio this morning and of course read on the internet. It seems all FedEx locations will print your resume for FREE next Tuesday March 10, 2009. I believe FedEx is associated with Kinko's, so I safely assuming that means Kinko locations. Anyhow I wanted to put this out early in the morning for anyones infiormation. I believe they will print up to 25 black and white single-sided copies, whether you bring in a hard-copy or a digital. I wish those the best of luck...we'll get through this.

Please come back later, I will have an interestig post...or subject to cover.

New Day - New Life

Well…thanks once again for visiting my Blog once again, as you can tell I made some changes…I wanted to give my Blog a broader range of topics that I can share…and as you can see I decided to place some ads…like everyone else…a little extra income is a welcome in my household…which brings me to my topic.

I wanted to let everyone know that I have a new addition to my family...baby girl…I am truly excited. I have a 7 year old boy…wonderful boy and now we are graced with a beautiful girl…so I get to cover this topic and share my experiences so far…I think you’ll find them funny, similar to what you might have or are experiencing and well…maybe insightful.

Now, you have to think it has been 7 years since I have changed diapers, prepared bottle, and well the sleepless nights…which means I am much older…now not to say my age, but as parents we started our family late in life…and I have noticed that these sleepless nights are seriously taking a toll on my body and mind…7 years ago I was a bit more energetic and could handle it much better, but today…I would gladly pay for 1 complete night of sleep...lol.

Well, so here we go…daughter born 2/13/09 at 3:11am…and watching her come out into the world once again brought tears to my eyes, and bless my wife for she is one tough woman…and did it the natural” way. So, we get home, start all over with bottles, warmers, diapers, blankies, burping cloths…and little clothes…which till this day I still find difficult to put on a new born…lol, but my whole household is cluttered with my daughters things…I think she took over…lol.
Well, one thing that was different this time around was the prepared dinners we received from neighbors, and friends I honestly never heard of such a thing…I was told that it is a tradition…well…being Hispanic…I know for sure that isn’t a Hispanic tradition…but no matter…the gestures was overwhelming and we are so grateful…because truly it helped out a lot during the first week, not having to worry about preparing dinner. Well, of course as many of you already know, every child is different…and so far my girl is different…she is a lot fussier, and eats more than my first child. We are also not as conscience about not making noise, we learned from our first that let her sleep with the vacuum cleaner running and TV on, so she learns to sleep through noises…did not do that with my first…and well any little noise would wake him up…anyhow. Also, my wife did not work with our first son…so she had a lot of time to rest while the baby slept and of course the days were more of going to the park, play dates, etc. of course she now works…so that interaction of them two alone is gone, but we will try our best to bring her up in her early years the same way we did our son. So there are little things here and there we do differently, but in the long run we will try and raise her similar…ok..well you know what I mean.

I do intend to post more…and this is more intend towards adults about adult things…well…you know. I am thinking about writing some short stories…I am finding that blogging is a lot more fun that I first thought…and best of all I get to share with you…we’ll cover some of the older topics I had posted earlier…I do want to get back on some of those issues. Thanks for reading and please come back often.