So, today something popped into my mind…crazy I know. I guess I really shouldn’t be thinking of that in the middle of work during the afternoon, but for some crazy reason it did. So I wanted to write it down while it was hot on my mind…sort of speaking…lol.
So, I have being in conversations, over heard conversations, and it’s been a topic of conversations on some of my dates…not a usual first date topic, but you know eventually will get to it. But I even brought this up with a few friends, both male and females and it was interesting to hear the responses. Ok, so…the topic is what do you prefer, lingerie or not. Now, obviously there isn’t one guy out there that doesn’t like intimate and revealing lingerie. But when it comes down to it…most guys actually find it sexier for women to wear simple, casual things than lingerie. So out of 15 men I asked all but three said they like the following on a women…it necessarily doesn’t have to be just before the main event…lol…but it will set the mood for them.
A Tank-top with no bra and a pair of panties, and actually thongs wasn’t the big request, but some lacey undies and even a few said the small boy shorts, but a tank-top with no bra will get 12 of the 15 men I spoke to juices running. So need to purchase expensive lingerie, not to say they don’t mind but that’s what they like. So, my questions was Lingerie or not, and as I found out men prefer, not that they mind lingerie, but prefer a simple tank-top and undies…go figure.
Now I asked several women, friends I know and a few I didn’t….yah I dared…but come to realize that many of them find it time consuming and sometimes a pain to put on the lingerie. It could take a few hours to get prepare and for what…maybe 10-15 minutes at the most of wearing it…before their mate tears it off. Some said that their loved ones actually find them sexy coming out of the shower in a robe, wearing underneath simply undies…the whole ambiance gets their lovers going. So, I ask everyone out there, what do you prefer, man or women, do prefer Lingerie or simpler things?
I do have to say one thing…this was a big pet peeve from the guys I talked to…guys that have been in long relationships…hate it…really…should have seeing there faces…when women try and get intimate while wearing big giant sweats and a overly huge t-shirt…yah it blows the mood and for some reason they feel it really isn’t worth it…so they don’t put their all into it…weird…I know but they sort of slack of during the you know what and afterwards the women complain and the gus take it in one ear and out the other. That’s stinks…really…but I was surprised on that response from the guys. So, my suggestion ladies, if you want your man to perform (a little longer)…I would suggest taking off those huge sweatpants and overly large t-shirt before you seducing your man…lol…then maybe you’ll be in for a surprise….I am only saying. I believe it goes for men as well…so guys don’t expect a night of pasion if you are not looking all that sexy either…so guys step it up, clean up and enjoy.
My Perspective:
A s for me, I prefer the simpler things…not saying I wouldn’t enjoy a baby-doll, but if I see a women walking around in a Tank-top with undies…that really drives me bananas…the second thing that would do it…would be the out of the shower, robe and undies underneath only scene…yah…that would work. And if you think about it, It is true…about 10-15 minutes the clothing stays on…so …if we are on budgets…as most of us are…I think…we can go simpler and you’ll still set the mood. I hope to hear comments on this topic, so until next time, thanks for reading.
