This is how it goes, size matters but in regards to the size of the man’s wallet, ok…it seems that the bigger the man’s wallet the better and bigger the women’s orgasms…interesting huh. Now, we all know that money and economy are the biggest culprits when it comes to dissolved marriages. Couples fight about money. Straight and simple. The thing is that when that happens women stress, not that the man doesn’t right, well it seems that women stress and when this happens they really don’t want to have any intimacy and if they do, mostly not by choice, they either fake an orgasms, 90% of the women do this or they simply do not enjoy it. Now, if a man can provide, a house, car, spending money (spending money seems to be the key here) and the woman not work then the women will have better and bigger orgasms…huh.
Now here is an interesting part, every woman that commented on the subject…totally agreed…ok. They said, of course if I did not have to work, but also had money to spend as I please, of course I would rock my hubbies world. Now, several men…actually most of the men with the exception of one…and I’ll get to him; stated that they are the sole providers and provided plenty of spending money for the wives candi4es; the thing is that when the man got home, if they did not have a maid, the house would be a mess, there was no food and the women either has a headache or had a busy day with the kids, if kids were involved. The women that had maids always had a great excuse as why they did not feel like having sex. Now, the one man that stated this was true, was a business owner…he said that it was totally true, he had been married before for 10 years, got divorced and afterwards made himself a name with his own business, well he met a younger women, about 20 years younger…he met her through his business, well, they dated briefly, married, she doesn’t work, she drives a nice car and has spending money. Now they do not have kids, he does from his first marriage, so when he gets home she has the house clean, food ready and of course the evenings are, what was that word he used?, “Incredible”. Now sure if it is the age difference, the money or the fact that they do not have kids.
The thing is, that I personally know of a guy, who works his own business, his wife does not work, they have three kids and well, they are as happy as can be. She maintains the house clean, takes care of the kids, drives a nice car, has money to spend and still has dinner ready for him, and actually waits to eat with him…he gets home a bit late. She puts the kids to bed while he showers or relaxes and then the evenings are well...he didn’t say…but he gets it 3-4 times a week…so that seems to work. I guess it just a matter of individuality, each person is different…of course right…the thing is finding that right person that fits in your or each other’s life style…some women prefer to work, have careers, other’s are great home makers…and yet others well they fall through the cracks…I don’t know.
I forgot to mention that all the men except one, totally said they were not that big in the men’s department, the one that said he did was the one with the younger wife, she actually confirmed…so maybe that was another plus on his side. So was it the size of the wallet and manly hood…or was it just the size of the wallet that left these men high and dry. You tell me, ladies is it the size of the wallet that counts?
My Perspective:
I think that it all depends on the couple, whom you are with. You see each of us is different, you might have two people that love to work and have careers, you might have a woman high in the corporate ladder that would rather have her husband stay at home, or of course the traditional marriage of the man being the provider and the women staying at home. The thing is, you need determine what you want out of life, do you, as a woman, want to be a home maker, take care of the home, kids and husband. Do you as a woman want to have a career and share in the duties of the family…I mean you as a woman need to find what makes you happy, so other’s are happy. First comes you, then everyone else, now that’s not being selfish, it’s the plain truth. I think it is very hard to find that exact person you can spend the rest of your life with; we all have corky things about us. So, simply finding Mr. or Mrs. Right isn’t as easy as 1-2-3. People need to determine what they really want out of life and then see if they find someone with the same plan…even if it takes a while, I think if you take your time and look and really get to know the person…it would save a lot of marriages. I know it’s hard to find the right person and when you do, they aren’t the person you fell in love with, maybe they lied, or possibly they change their plan, but all we can do is do not rush into a marriage, do not rush into having kids, take the time to know each other and what you want out of life, then everything else will fall nicely into place…I know it sounds to good to be true, but that is my perspective.
Till next time, Listen to soft sensual music, thanks for reading Latino Man signing off.
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