Honey, “Do These Jeans Make Me Look Fat?”

The ever dreading question, we get as men possibly many times in our lives; it has become a comical skeet on TV, on stage and between friends and yet there never seems to be a right answer or is there. The other day I was surfing the net and happen to come across this topic, but it had evolved into something more, almost like having an explanation to that dreaded question. You see in the post, there was the question, “Do These Jeans Make Me Look Fat?”, now the interesting thing here was that the comments, most of them, were from women and they were actually explaining why they ask the question, now I am only summarizing the answers/comment, but you’ll either agree as a woman or be amazed as a man, we’ll see.

Anyhow, so the comments explained that women have certain areas of their bodies that they do not like, but that most men absolutely like, now let me clear this up. OK, one of the comments tells of a women that does not like to have a big butt…ok, they would rather fit into a size 0 or 1, like most of those models we see in magazines or on modeling runways. The thing is that most men, prefer a nice big, soft rump…we men do not enjoy smacking that rear end and hitting bone…ok. Now women don’t see that or understand that of men. The lady goes one talking about how she would love to go shopping and be able to buy anything of the rack in the stores, that she is always having difficulty finding something that fits her, so that is why they, women, prefer to be as thin as possible, like a zero or one. That was her comment. Now another lady comments about having a little too much on the top, now I understand that if not taken care of properly, the extra weight on the op can sometimes cause some pain, if they do exercise, or vigorous work. Now, I am not a women, but I read and see and listen, there are millions of women out that are “D” size or larger and have being able to locate proper support when doing those extra vigorous activities, don’t quote me on that, but I have had both large and small breasted girlfriends and never heard of one that was large complain. So anyhow, back to the interesting topic, now these comments I found to be more like an explanation to that old question of “Do these jeans make my butt look big”.

How I see it, there are 2 things lacking here, one is a lack of communication between man and women, my opinion…men like them big…ok…that’s the plain truth…and I don’t think there is one man out there doesn’t agree with me…come on… am sure a man would rather see a voluptuous women in a lingerie, than an anorexic women in a lingerie. Maybe men need to work on the way they deliver their words so as not to offend and so as to make them selves clear. The second thing that I see boils down to clothing…being able to buy anything on the racks and not have to struggle in finding something that fits, I think is plain crazy…ok…I am not a women, but come on…I thought women liked shopping. Shopping takes time. Why in the world would you just want to run up into the Mall and just buy what ever fits you that you found on the rack, ok with the understanding that you like it, but seriously does that make sense? I don’t know, but going through those comments it really seems those were the two things that most women explained, wanting to be a size 0 or 1 and being able to buy what ever is in the store and not having to struggle in finding something that fits.

So, I am asking, ladies, for your opinion is this true? Would you prefer not to struggle while shopping and do you want to be a size 0 or 1 and why?

Through out the years, I have met a guys and we would chat, what guy doesn’t, and we would talk about a certain film Star that was hot, like remember Nicole Kidman back in the days she was nicely filed in, now a days she looks like a skeleton and men have commented that, that she looks awful; remember Sharon Stone in Basic Instinct…oh yah…people remember, now look at her, thin. I’m taking into consideration the age…ok…and that has nothing to do with it. Guys sit back and talk about women, yah sometimes we can be childish, but I recall the talks and I don’t remember one conversation about someone’s girlfriend or wife or significant other gaining weight or, so and so is fat…or that, WOW look at that size zero women….come one, guys don’t know the difference between size 0 and size 5…we just see big or small…and we tend to go to the bigger spectrum, we like meat on them bones.

So once again I ask, ladies, for your opinion is this true? Would you prefer not to struggle while shopping and do you want to be a size 0 or 1? Or do you have a different point of view or comment.

My Perspective:

Ladies, we men love the way you look, straight and simple…we love anything you wear and you look good to us. Remember, the guy you are with is with you for some reason and I am pretty sure it not completely related to your looks; yes…you probably looked hot when he saw you and yah maybe he was attracted to some part of your body, butt, breasts, legs, eyes, smile…but he is still with you because you gave him so much more. Something to think about...you both were attracted possibly physically, but once you talked…the click was there…communication is a major factor…I always say this, communication is extremely important in any kind of relationship…any kind.

Thanks for reading…Latino Man signing off.