Welcome back to another post. I know…I know it’s been some time since I have posted, but I am here now and I have an interesting topic. I was at the store picking up some things and I over heard…hey…when you have a blog you need to keep an ear out for any interesting topics…lol. Ok so I heard these two ladies talking about their husbands and the arguments they are always in…well one of them said something interesting…she asked the other, “So who starts the fights in your House?”. I was intrigue because now a days you always hear about the arguments between couples and its is becoming more and more common in relationships. So, me having a blog and wanting to hear what the average population thinks about this I went about and asked. So, here is the question:
“Who starts the fights in your house?”
Now, this was interesting, but all but 1 of the women I asked said they start the fights…they giggled a bit…actually they all did when they said it. Now as for the men, all except one, again, said their wife, girlfriend start the fights. I was surprised. So I went about telling some folks what I found out and the people I told started thinking and once again all the women, in this series, said they start the fights and it made them think…once they finished thinking…again they giggled. I was surprised to the results and most importantly the honesty…it was a very interesting topic and results.
So I ask you, “Who starts the fight in your house?”
My Perspective:
Ok so I stood back and started thinking about my fights or better said arguments in my household and sure enough…most of them were started by my significant other…hmm. I am not saying that I didn’t start a few, but the majority of them were started by my significant other…very interesting. I brought this to my dearest and she started giggling, get that response from most of the women, and she agreed…I was TOTALLY surprised on her response…because that’s the first time she has ever agreed on something…lol. So what do I think, well most of these fights or better said arguments I believe could be handled or resolved with no need to argue/yell….because all that does is bring up lingering past issues and that could lead to a whole other fight. My perspective…talk….communicate, I think with some inter changing of a civilized conversation it could get resolved…yah…yah…I know…talking in you house or anyone’s house…nope…it all ends up being a huge yelling fest…go figure.
Ok so I stood back and started thinking about my fights or better said arguments in my household and sure enough…most of them were started by my significant other…hmm. I am not saying that I didn’t start a few, but the majority of them were started by my significant other…very interesting. I brought this to my dearest and she started giggling, get that response from most of the women, and she agreed…I was TOTALLY surprised on her response…because that’s the first time she has ever agreed on something…lol. So what do I think, well most of these fights or better said arguments I believe could be handled or resolved with no need to argue/yell….because all that does is bring up lingering past issues and that could lead to a whole other fight. My perspective…talk….communicate, I think with some inter changing of a civilized conversation it could get resolved…yah…yah…I know…talking in you house or anyone’s house…nope…it all ends up being a huge yelling fest…go figure.
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