by Kevin, 13 hours ago
It’s a fact that men are more prone to boredom than women. This fact could spell disaster in the bedroom if a woman is not careful. If they can give a man variety in a relationship, there is nothing like it. Women could start off, by learning about the man’s anatomy and how to go about stimulating its various parts to stimulate him to a state of arousal. Don’t think that a man’s anatomy is only about his penis. It’s much more than that. By knowing these parts, doesn’t mean reading about them. Knowing, in this case is about knowing how to caress, lick and kiss in the right places.
Couples, relationship and boredom
A relationship needs its share of spice to keep afloat. If there is no spice, the relationship becomes monotonous. A couple can soon become bored of such a relationship and boredom is the silent killer of a relationship. A small amount of boredom is acceptable as one can’t bring variety in a relationship all the time. If a couple does not find the relationship interesting enough, they see no point in going forward with it. The trick is to keep adding a bit of interest quotient now and then. Both the man, as well as, the woman in the relationship, are responsible for it and should try making it exciting by adding some fun now and then to the proceedings.
Variety - Why is it needed?
Variety is the spice of life. This is true for a relationship, as well. Variety is an important facet of relationship. Variety could come in many forms and can also be a part of your sexual activity. A woman should know how to turn her man on, and use this knowledge to spice up the relationship. All good things come in small packages, so should variety in sex. Much as it is important to know the turn ons for a man, it is even more important to know the turn offs. If a woman adds variety, there is no doubt that the man will come to appreciate her better and will never want to let go of her. Variety can be regarded as the foundation of a healthy and a successful relationship. It’s the fuel that propels the relationship ahead.
Tip 1: The role of a caring mother
One way of adding variety is by adopting the role of nurturing mother. You must assume the role of somebody who actually cares for him and wants him to be happy at all times. Take care of him when he is sick, make sure that he is well taken care of, and be there when he needs you. Being a mother is all about being confident of your role as a woman in his life. Men find this kind of confidence sexy.
Tip 2: The little girl
The little girl needs her daddy! Make him feel wanted and needed. Most men need to feel like a hero and your little girl approach will make him feel like the most important person of your life. You can also get naughty at times, especially in the bedroom. Of course, using the little girl approach doesn’t mean letting go of all the responsibilities, but it’s about having some fun with your man. Say he likes baseball; hang out with him when he is watching the game. The little girl needs to take interest in her man’s hobbies.
Tip 3: The seductive lover
Every man loves a seductive lover; somebody who is uninhibited and knows just how to arouse and satisfy him. She can heat things up for him and give him some unforgettable sexual experiences. By not being inhibited, it will give you an opportunity to try new thing together with your partner. It could include role playing, enacting your most private fantasies, giving the man quickies and of course, oral sex.
Turn on your man - Tips
It doesn’t take much to turn on the man. But this doesn’t mean that you don’t make an effort turn him on. Here are a few pointers that can help you turn him on:
- Through communication. You need to be able to tell him what you need and what he wants
- Initiate a sexual adventure. Identify some exciting locations for having sex surprise him by seducing him, when he least expects it
- Men will definitely be turned on by a woman masturbating for him
- Sexy apparel, especially lingerie is a surefire turn on for a man
- Initiate an erotic conversation with him. If he likes talking dirty, talk dirty for him
It’s a process
Infusing variety in a relationship is a process. It’s not necessary that a man will appreciate it the first time that you try it. He might or might not like it. Patience is the key here, as a bit of trial and error will help you get the perfect mix of variety.
My erspective:
I enjoy writing, I do it all day long at work, well maybe not this exciting, but I do. Now, as I think about my topics i also do quite a bit of research and see what other's think about it, and believe me when I say there is a lot of people out there thinking the same way I do. So I find these articles and think to myself, self, why not share these since they represent a bit of what I think. Now, I do not want to change them, common courtesy, so I need to give my perspective at the end and cover the areas I think hit closes to me.
Anyhow, I might sound like a broken record, but I am always on the whole subject of communication, but you know, I thought that this article hit an area I honestly believe needs to be kept up in any relationship. Need to keep the "Spice", need to keep it interesting. Yah some of us loose interest, but you know, if you just open up your mind and allow your self to let loose and imagine the things that would turn you on, then do it; I am sure that your love one will be more than happy to oblige. Now, keep it within reason and before doing anything crazy, make sure you BOTH talk about it before adventuring out and doing it, OK. Surprises are fun, but if one really doesn't like it, then it more than likely will flop, so keep those open lines of communication between the two of you.
Thanks for reading, till next time Latino Man signing off.
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