Who Starts the Fights in Your House?

Welcome back to another post. I know…I know it’s been some time since I have posted, but I am here now and I have an interesting topic. I was at the store picking up some things and I over heard…hey…when you have a blog you need to keep an ear out for any interesting topics…lol. Ok so I heard these two ladies talking about their husbands and the arguments they are always in…well one of them said something interesting…she asked the other, “So who starts the fights in your House?”. I was intrigue because now a days you always hear about the arguments between couples and its is becoming more and more common in relationships. So, me having a blog and wanting to hear what the average population thinks about this I went about and asked. So, here is the question:

“Who starts the fights in your house?”

Now, this was interesting, but all but 1 of the women I asked said they start the fights…they giggled a bit…actually they all did when they said it. Now as for the men, all except one, again, said their wife, girlfriend start the fights. I was surprised. So I went about telling some folks what I found out and the people I told started thinking and once again all the women, in this series, said they start the fights and it made them think…once they finished thinking…again they giggled. I was surprised to the results and most importantly the honesty…it was a very interesting topic and results.

So I ask you, “Who starts the fight in your house?”

My Perspective:
Ok so I stood back and started thinking about my fights or better said arguments in my household and sure enough…most of them were started by my significant other…hmm. I am not saying that I didn’t start a few, but the majority of them were started by my significant other…very interesting. I brought this to my dearest and she started giggling, get that response from most of the women, and she agreed…I was TOTALLY surprised on her response…because that’s the first time she has ever agreed on something…lol. So what do I think, well most of these fights or better said arguments I believe could be handled or resolved with no need to argue/yell….because all that does is bring up lingering past issues and that could lead to a whole other fight. My perspective…talk….communicate, I think with some inter changing of a civilized conversation it could get resolved…yah…yah…I know…talking in you house or anyone’s house…nope…it all ends up being a huge yelling fest…go figure.

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CONQUERING THE SMOKING HABIT

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CONQUERING THE SMOKING HABIT

Most smokers sincerely want to quit. They know cigarettes threaten their health, set a bad example for their children, annoy their acquaintances and cost an inordinate amount of money.

Nobody can force a smoker to quit. It's something each person has to decide for himself, and will require a personal commitment by the smoker. What kind of smoker are you? What do you get out of smoking? What does it do for you? It is important to identify what you use smoking for and what kind of satisfaction you feel that you are getting from smoking.

Many smokers use the cigarette as a kind of crutch in moments of stress or discomfort, and on occasion it may work; the cigarette is sometimes used as a tranquilizer. But the heavy smoker, the person who tries to handle severe personal problems by smoking heavily all day long, is apt to discover that cigarettes do not help him deal with his problems effectively.

When it comes to quitting, this kind of smoker may find it easy to stop when everything is going well, but may be tempted to start again in a time of crisis. Physical exertion, eating, drinking, or social activity in moderation may serve as useful substitutes for cigarettes, even in times of tension. The choice of a substitute depends on what will achieve the same effects without having any appreciable risk.

Once a smoker understands his own smoking behavior, he will be able to cope more successfully and select the best quitting approaches for himself and the type of life-style he leads.
Because smoking is a form of addiction, 80 percent of smoker who quit usually experience some withdrawal symptoms. These may include headache, light-headedness, nausea, diarrhea, and chest pains. Psychological symptoms, such as anxiety, short-teilu depression, and inability to concentrate, may also appear. The main psychological symptom is increased irritability. People become so irritable, in fact, that they say they feel "like killing somebody." Yet there is no evidence that quitting smoking leads to physical violence.

Some people seem to lose all their energy and drive, wanting only to sleep. Others react in exactly the opposite way, becoming so over energized they can't find enough activity to burn off their excess energy. For instance, one woman said she cleaned out all her closets completely and was ready to go next door to start on her neighbor's. Both these extremes, however, eventually level off. The symptoms may be intense for two or three days, but within 10 to 14 days after quitting, most subside. The truth is that after people quit smoking, they have more energy, they generally will need less sleep, and feel better about themselves.

Quitting smoking not only extends the ex-smoker's life, but adds new happiness and meaning to one's current life. Most smokers state that immediately after they quit smoking, they start noticing dramatic differences in their overall health and vitality.

Quitting is beneficial at any age, no matter how long a person has been smoking. The mortality ratio of ex-smoker decreases after quitting. If the patient quits before a serious disease has developed, his body may eventually be able to restore itself almost completely.

Thanks for reading, till next time.

Dare to go Bare or Leave the Hair -

Ok…I needed to put this post in on this topic; sometimes among the guys we do talk about this (among other things)…come on…you ladies do too…I’ve heard you and plus I do have friends that are woman. The questions are:

“Do you prefer Hair or Going Bare on Yourself”
“The other question is; do you prefer bare or hair on your partner?”

So, anyways you are in a relationship and you know how it goes…you meet, fall in love, date, have dinner, movies and the day comes when you are both passionately kissing and one thing leads to another.

So you start of on the couch. Light music in the background and you begin to get into the mood; lots of hugging, kissing, touching and well…the clothing begins to come off slowly and before you know it your headed towards the bedroom or maybe not. As you both are getting overly excited and anticipation takes control, you begin to vigorously started tearing of the remaining pieces of clothing…you slowly begin to lay down either on a bed, couch or floor (ouch). As one of you begins to head south (for those that do)…you make sure to travel slowly, stopping along the way at every beautiful section of the body. Now, you arrive at your destination and low and behold bam…you see a big patch of fur or a maybe you see an isolated area. “So what’s your preference…a little, a lot or completely bare?” Now,now…don’t turn red, but think about it.

Now I went ahead and made a poll on this topic and I was amazed to see that people actually responded, but I am glad they did. So I’ll get into the numbers or percentage in a bit, I did want to share some of the thoughts behind these preferences.

Now, I have heard a few guys say that going bare (on themselves) makes that are a lot more sensitive. Now, I am not sure if that’s necessarily a good thing for some guys… but hey you never know. Now for the majority of the men, they say they would never do it…that it isn’t a manly thing to do. Now, I did get this same response from both men and women, “Going bare means less flossing”…Ok…you know what I mean. A majority of the women did say that they do keep it trim. The thing is…if they could, they would go completely bare? That for those women that do go completely bare…say that they really like it a lot more and that there partner is more entitle to perform orally. The only drawback to it is that going completely bare, if not done professionally it could lead to a lot of itchiness…when the hair grows back. Now, this was an added plus, some women even went as far as to say that they would shape the area out, some would make a heart shape, others would make a landing strip…wow…I was astonished by these little extra comments, but as I said most would prefer bare. So…let’s see what the people think on this topic…share...and answer honestly…no one will know it’s you. The question is:

“Do you prefer the Hair or going Bare on Your Self”
“Another question is, do you prefer bare or hair on your partner?”

Now, let me wrap this up with some percentages. The interesting thing is that most of the guys on the poll, about 85%…prefer that the lady be bare. About 10% said a little hair is ok…and about 5% of the men said they like the hair (lots of it). Now for going bare on themselves the guys…90% of the men said “No way”. The other 10% said they would. There was actually no in betweens…no one said they would trim themselves. Now as for the women, 80%, said they prefer to go bare on themselves…yah that’s strange, but they do…it seems that it’s just a lot more…what’s the word they used…”FUN”. 15% percent said they would only keep it trim and not go complete bare, the thing is, about ½ of the women in the 15 percentile…said they keep it very…very trimmed. Now I was surprised thatsome woman prefer to go natural…and no trim at all.

My Perspective:
Now I know you are wondering my perspective on this, and for some of you that know me…not mentioning any names…I will answer…so sit back and read on. I believe that it all depends on your preference, like it says in my post and what the people said. The majority of the women did prefer bare on both themselves and their partner, the majority of the men preferred bare on their partner, not on themselves. It's all a preference. As for me, I don’t have a set preference…I do have to say that I rather have it bare, but keeping it trim is definitely ok. As for myself, well...honestly I like to go bare...because I dare. That's my perspective.

So let’s hear what you prefer, once again thanks for reading…till next time.