Change – Is NOT Possible

I recently posted a topic or topics and some where in there I talked about change and sometimes the need for us to make the change which at times can be really difficult. But as I read through it and the thing s I am going through now I not only at a personal level by a professional level…”Change” is many times not possible. We can change certain things, but many things that go on everyday in our lives…even little things…sometimes cannot be changed.

Now, when you think about it…sometimes we hope for the best and try to change things, well those that we can or we try, but when it comes down to it…if you look back at some of those things you supposedly changed…they some how crept back and you are right back to square one. So, maybe it is noticeable or maybe not…but look around you and there is a good possibility that something you might have worked on changing…could be right back in your life.

Now, I am not trying to be negative here ok…don’t take my post the wrong way…but I wanted to point something out about what I noticed around me…not only personally but professionally. Even at work things that people have meetings on or committees that work through a project, process or whatever it may be…something to improve the bottom line for the company or business…well…I noticed that those 6 months of meetings and possibly tens of thousands of dollars spent on the committee…you know time and salaries of the individuals involved…pretty much seem to be written off. Because the issues or processes ends right back to where it started from…the work that was done…is for nothing.

And that doesn’t go only for work process and projects, etc. it happens in our life, with relationships, raising kids, love, etc…things such as New Year resolutions may get started but end up right back on our shoulders. What I am trying to say about this is that we try and make changes we would like to see done, but it seems that in most cases our efforts and or work seems to be for nothing. So why would anyone of us put ourselves through those kinds of regimens? Couldn’t we just avoid the work or loss of money and time and simply continue with what we were trying to change…because when you think about it…most of won’t make the necessary change unless something horrible happens…because it is then that we make the change because of a loss of a love one or a drastic injury to ourselves…maybe loosing you job and house…will bring about changes in how you control your finances…whatever it maybe …it all comes down to making the change whether it be by your own means or because of a drastic event in your / our lives.

My Perspective:
It’s tough to give my perspective because I could simply say why bother making change…why not wait until something drastically or huge event causes you to make the change without your opinion. Because if you try it just because you want to…it seems never to pan out…or for many of us…it does not pan out or it comes right back. Or you can go ahead and attempt a New Years resolutions and hope that in 6 months or year it doesn’t come back…if that is the case then good luck.

Thanks for reading till next time Latino man signing off.

Beyond out Capabilities –
Taking the first Step

The time has come to look beyond my means…it’s time for me to step into what I have always wanted to do. I have the tools, the knowledge and the means to finally take that step that has long been coming. Some people can accumulate immense knowledge, some people have the ability to manipulate numbers, the alphabet, games and well so much more and have proven that the human mind and body can go beyond what many believe they can do, it’s just a matter of taking that first step.

We have read, seen and experience amazing things in our lives, while we were children and as adults and with all that there has to be something we can do to take it further than we are use to. We do believe, we sometimes let other things get in the way…what those things are somehow we don’t know so we are kept at bay from our true potential in life.

We have heard time and time again that we have all been placed in this world for a reason, whether you believe it or not, there has to be some truth behind it. Finding it is our journey, our obligation, and few only dare or have the ability to actually attempt to find it…the rest of us live in that dream. We are outsiders looking in and only a few will actually ever be inside.

It has been proven time and time again that as individuals in order to succeed or be successful we need to drop to the lowest we can…we need to meet head to head with the most horrifying fear we can imagine, only to make us the person we were meant to be. But why do we need to go through such pain, suffering, in order to move ahead and become that of what we have always wished for…why can’t we simply push ourselves beyond and become?

I will submit everything I have learned and everything I am capable of learning and move forward with success, that success that I know I can accomplish, reach, obtain…that will make me a better person not only for me, but for my family and most importantly the community. I have reach my prime, I am the best at what I do and now I have to break out of that and move ahead to what I was meant to do and be. It will come, it will be reached, it will not be easy, but the journey will make me and not break me…positive thoughts, positive ideas, positive moves ahead that relate to what I have learned.

My Perspective:
We all have the capability to be the best that we can, to teach the best things we have to our children, to provide the best to our community…all it takes is that first step, once taken the same momentum will propel you to where you belong.

Thanks for reading, thanks for putting up with my thoughts, till next time Latino Man signing Off.